CHAPTER TWO: THE PERSON AND LOVE
II. PSYCHOLOGICAL ANALYSIS OF LOVE
10. The problem of integration of love

From the psychological point of view, love can be considered as a situation. On the one hand, the internal situation in a particular subject, a person, and on the other, a situation between two people women and men. In any case, looking at both from outside and from inside the situation, it is a particular situation is unique, therefore, and can not reproduce. Its outer side is most closely linked to its inner side, to what is found in people, actors in the drama of his love. Because love is certainly a drama, in the sense that evolution is essentially the same thing and action is what the Greek term drao. However, the dramatis personae, man and woman, are distilling their plot of themselves, find love as a situation unique psychological, problem and very absorbent importnate its secrets.
psychology seeks to discover the structure of the inner life of man and finds, in the course of its investigation that the most significant elements of that life are the truth and freedom. The truth is directly linked to the domain of knowledge. Human knowledge is not limited to reflecting objects is inseparable from the experience of true and false. This experience is precisely what constitutes the "nerve" more interior and at the same time, most essential of human knowledge . If it consisted only "reflect" the objects, one might think that is material in nature. But the experience of truth and falsehood is entirely outside the scope of the subject . The truth conditions of freedom. In fact, man can not remain free on different objects that are imposed on its action as good and desirable rather than extent that it is able to apprehend in the light of truth, thus taking an independent attitude towards them . Lacking this power, the man doomed to be determined, these goods would overcome it, fully decide their actions and their orientation. The power of knowing the truth makes it possible to man self , ie allowed to decide independently on the nature and direction of their own actions . But therein lies freedom.
Our analysis has shown that the love between two people of opposite sexes born on the basis of sexual orientation. Hence it is a concentration of men and women about sexual values, each represented by the person of the opposite sex. When these values \u200b\u200bare linked to the person's body and cause the desire for pleasure, the subject is dominated by lust. When, however, sexual values \u200b\u200bare associated primarily with the body, then the dominating run to the emotions, and the lust it does not occupy the foreground. The forms of love are very numerous depending on the attitude toward sexual values. Each of these forms is strictly individual, because it is the property of a particular person, defined by inner as well as in a particular external context. According to the dominant psychic powers, you get a violent emotional attachment or a passionate desire.
all inner forces that game is reflected in consciousness. The characteristic feature of sexual love is his great strength, indirect evidence of the strength of "instinct" sexual and its importance in human life. This intense concentration vital and psychic forces absorb the subject's consciousness to the point that, in comparison, everything else seems to fade and lose weight . To convince enough people-watching dominated by love. The Platonic idea of \u200b\u200bthe power of Eros is constantly confirmed. If you can conceive of sexual love as a state within the person, this is from the psychological point of view expressive and attractive. The man in her concentrated energy which so far ignored the presence in itself. Therefore, to him in this presence felt a pleasure, a joy of living, living and acting, although on the other hand, come mezclárseles sadness or depression.
This presents the subjective profile of love, and under this aspect is always love a particular situation and unique interiority man. At the same time, tends to integrate both in people as between them. The Latin word " integer "means" whole. "Integration is, therefore, aggregation tendency to unity and wholeness. The process of love is based on the spiritual side of man, his truth and freedom.
freedom and truth determine the spiritual imprint marking the different manifestations of life and human action. They penetrate to the depths of the acts and states of human soul and give them the particular content that we find no trace of animal life. To this must be love between people of their particular knowledge. As much as it rests so strongly and so clearly in the body and senses, neither the one nor the other pattern or create your real profile. Love is always a problem of interiority and spirit as it ceases to be, also ceases to be love. What remains in the senses and the mere sexual vitality of the human body is not its essence. Will is the person that ultimately without whose participation nothing has value or weight that corresponds to the essence of the person. The value of this is closely linked to the liberty, property of the will. And most of all is the love that is in need of freedom: the commitment to freedom is in essence a certain environment. That that has its source in freedom, what is not free commitment, to be determined or be the effect of violence can not be recognized as love contains nothing of its essence. why in the process of psychological integration, which unfolds in the interiority of the individual parallel with sexual love, what matters is a commitment not only will but also of freedom: it is necessary that the will engage as fully and in conformity with its nature.
A commitment truly l free at will not is possible only based on truth. The experience of freedom is inseparable from freedom. All internal situation is psychologically real: sensual desire, and affective commitment. It is a subjective truth: a person want truly other, because they find in his inner life a clear sense, tinged with lust and born of the impression given by the desired person. Likewise, the affective commitment of one over the other is true, because its subject is itself emotions, a predisposition for emotions , a desire for closeness and support such that feels compelled to call "love" to his domestic situation. From the subjective point of view, we are faced both with a true love.
But love still requires objective truth, a necessary condition for the integration of love. While not look more than the light d and the subjective truth, fail to grasp the full picture of love and we can not judge their objective value, which, despite all , is the most important. That is what we will try to highlight through the moral analysis of love.
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